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Being Pro-Life Is Hard When You're A Guy!

So I was having this conversation with one of my gf's female friends I began to tell her why I'm pro-life. I said first there's really no way to regulate it! She said I thought you didn't like to regulate stuff, I said yeah on everything else! Drugs, foods, school, but not murder! I said look there are doctors who follow the rules and abort fetuses that aren't that old( which I still think is disgusting), but there are some doctors who can care less and would abort a baby who's 6months or 7 or 8! She said that doesn't happen Juano and I said, but I've heard stories, she said exactly "HEARD" stories, that doesn't make it true. So I went on my IPhone and showed her a story, anyway she begins to cry and says she has gotten 2 abortions her self and says Juano you would never know because you're a guy! She said there was no way she could have taken care of those kids, she's struggling as it is now! And I said I do understand, but you would of been a good mother, your a great person! Then she says but imagine how different my life would be? I said well yeah duh lol. I said if you moved to NYC your life would be different too, she says no it wouldn't! I'm single I could do what ever I want. I said why didn't you just put them up for adoption? She says she didn't want to because she felt that she would end up wanting to keep the baby when she saw it and that just wasn't an option. She says Juano what if a girls rape or incest occurs? I said what about it? She goes comeon! Your not thinking logically! I said no your not! The girls already a victom, you want the baby to be one too? She pauses for a long time, then says I see what you're saying Juano, but.... but... Idk. I guess that's just how I feel! Lol I said I use to think just like you until I found Dr. Paul! I said if you met a kid and someone told you hey he or she is a product of a rape would you treat that kid any different? She says of course not! And I said, I don't think you would if it were your baby either! She said Juano you're right! She goes I never looked at it like that! Then we just kept on drinking lol.

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being prolife should be easy.
it means you love life, and agree with it.
with out life one can not have a choice.

when it comes to gvt.
"If gvt wont protect innocent life where ever it may be found, then who will?" Ron Paul

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juan maldonado

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At least she let you talk lol

I thought this was going to be about how girls always say a guy shouldn't have an opinion on this matter because girls say that a lot.

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No she was real cool. She

No she was real cool. She finally starting understanding what I was trying to tell her, because at first she didn't like the fact, that someone who doesn't know what it's like to be pregnant(guys), was telling her what she can do with her body. She started really understanding toward the end, it was a great discussion man!

juan maldonado

Soooo you're ready to get married?

She sounds ready to have children, and so do you.

GOOD LUCK and many blessings to you both.

Thankyou Granger.

Thankyou Granger.

juan maldonado

It's obviously a difficult issue

It's been decades since Roe v. Wade and the nation is still very much split down the middle on the issue.

Most Democrats are pro-choice and most Republicans are pro-life, but it's tough as libertarians are also split fairly evenly on the issue. The 2012 Libertarian candidate, Gary Johnson, is pro-choice (saying just a year ago that it's a women's right to choose until fetal viability). In comparison, Ron Paul is strongly pro-life and believes it begins at conception.

My wife just took a final

For a sociology class at a local JU-CO (necessary to maintain her teaching license) where one of the questions on the final was.

Who is responsible for discrimination in America

a. White People
b. Conservatives
c. Rich People
d. All of the above.

I'll leave it up to you to figure out which answer the teacher had marked as the correct one...... What really burns me is that my wife is a great teacher, yet we had to pay money for this class so that she could keep her certification and her job. On the other hand, this professor was so leftist that it solidified her beliefs, so maybe it was money well spent. I sorrow for the poor kids being brainwashed in that class though.

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I was trying to reply to rockstar below on a related topic.

Josh Brueggen
Jack of all Trades
Precinct Commiteeman Precinct 5 Rock Island Co Illinois

Interesting post. I used to

Interesting post. I used to be pro-choice but a few years ago finally realized how wrong I was. And am in some ways ashamed that I could have ever held that belief in the first place. Abortion is murder plain and simple. I really don't understand how self described liberals and libertarians (and even some conservatives,these days) can honestly think that abortion is a right and not murder. It is so murder! It is agression towards the fetus! Something any actual libertarian would be against. Anyone having doubts on abortion themselves should really study up and watch the videos and see the pictures of abortions. It will make your skin crawl. Abortion should be a federal issue. That's one of the few thing's I think should be a federal issue. A people can not be morally capable of self government if they kill there young. Infanticide leads to the loss of morality and the gradual deterioration of society. By the way I am a Deist and not religious. Reason shows me that abortion is wrong. Because it is and always will be.

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I was with you until.....

...you said "abortion should be a federal issue."

NO IT SHOULD NOT for several reasons
1) It's not in the constitution, hence, not a federal issue
2) Murder is not a federal issue, it's a state issue

Dr. Paul has addressed this very specifically several times. Does Congress legislate laws around murder? No. For those very two reasons above.

We agree it's murder, so it should be treated like murder: i.e. not a federal issue.

Being Pro-Life Is Hard When You're

a democrat



I have seen some really nasty post on this subject and this saddens me. I felt compelled to say this. No matter what your belief is on abortion, this should not be an issue handled by the federal government. Each state has very different views on abortion and I hope and Pray that Dr Paul will give the states the right to vote on this issue.

Amen to that!

Amen to that!

juan maldonado

Heres the article I showed

Heres the article I showed her http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2011/01/19/kermit--gosnell-cha...

juan maldonado

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It's the economy/ inflation

When you are living paycheck to paycheck, and you'll lose your job if you want to take a two week vacation- imagine how disruptive being pregnant and having a baby would be. It will ruin the woman. These women need several years of financial assistance. In the old days rent, food, and childcare was much cheaper and a family member (or father) could support the new mother without it bringing financial ruin. You can thank inflation for making children and family life a hardship. Inflation is the boiling water that is killing us frogs. The babies die first.

I think the road to hell was

I think the road to hell was paved in good intentions. I dont think woman need welfare! or men! they need for there partners to be there for them and say every things going to me ok, I promise. I think they need reassurance.Idk what do you think? because if we give every pregnant woman finicial assistance, when does it end? I mean I know life is hard, but killing a baby? thats kinda selfish.

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I wasn't talking about government assistance

I was talking about father, family, or community support. I think if you talk to pro-choice people about the financial aspect of childbirth and child rearing, you won't get so many walls right away. Heck, you can get a lesson in about the federal reserve while discussing abortion. We can all agree that life is getting harder and almost no one has financial security.
From my perspective, the only pro-life voices I had ever heard (before Ron Paul) were people holding big signs with horrible pictures on them. And rumors that those pro-life people kill abortion doctors made them look like hypocrites.
With a kinder approach from different perspectives we would be able to change more minds. We need to get the conversation of love and life out into the public to counteract the general acceptance of abortion.
I think most women love their babies and are protective of them. Somehow, if a woman isn't prepared to give a child a good life she protects the baby (and herself) by aborting it. Isn't that foolish? Protection by death? It reminds me of the Japanese suicide practice called oyako shinju, where a parent kills themselves and their children (since how can their child ever succeed in life without parents?). Abortion, in this case, is mother directed euthanasia to protect a baby (and herself) from the cruel world.
Some don't consider a fetus as being "alive" yet. Abortion is viewed as a do-over. But abortion doesn't harmlessly cancel out a pregnancy- a life must be taken. These people are in denial and only the gentlest approach to convert them will work.
I think our society needs a do-over. I commend you for bringing up this taboo topic with people.

You did pretty good.

Society has brainwashed these girls into thinking convenience murder is okay for them to do, so that they can submerge their conscience and do the deed.
It's something that the left has placed very high on their agenda, and pushed it into law from the judicial bench. It's essentially a Malthusian population-reduction scheme at best, and a eugenics scheme at worst. And in all cases, it's murder at the individual level.

It is not a natural act for a woman to kill her baby. To get that going on the scale that it is now, required mass brainwashing of the most intense kind.

Society has also made good

Society has also made good men afraid to speak out for the innocent unborn lest they be screamed at by the liberal media and their female viewers. A young man I know, who decided to no longer be cowered, wrote this to me. I thought it was profound and I saved it...

"As a man i used to think it was a woman's issue and that i had no right to tell someone else what to do, but as time has gone on... especially over the last 2 years i have felt more and more disturbed by the idea, after hearing horrible stories of what was done to the babies, especially the ones that could have even survived the abortion if someone had taken care of them. i soon realized this is an issue for all humanity, and silence is no longer an option. i also used to remain quiet on the issue because my own mom had an abortion when she got pregnant shortly after my birth. i didn't want to make her feel bad. but a great quote i read somewhere..... Abortion doesn't make you un-pregnant, it just makes you the mother of a dead baby."

Your really such a good guy!

Sounds like you explained things very good to her without condemnation. Keep up the good work!

I try lol. I just try as hard

I try lol. I just try as hard as I can to put myself in somebody else's shoes. You know?

juan maldonado

Perhaps prayer would help

I think that gal is hurting inside and needs some healing. I'm sorry about the loss of the children but the living must be our priority.

Be brave, be brave, the Myan pilot needs no aeroplane.

You know those crazy people

You know those crazy people who shoot up abortion clinics? people never wonder why there doing such a thing! they justify it by the fact that the doctor is doing the same thing, but to babies though!its so unbelievable man!

juan maldonado

life is precious

yet we will continually have war, abortions and a lack of thorough respect for life as long as we have slaughter houses

The liberals have made it

The liberals have made it almost impossible for white males to argue against any social issue by brain washing kids in school with affirmative action. I can't even count how many classes I had where the books and teachers teach you that white males are the cause of every problem we have ever had..

People who attack the white male as the problem

are really just disgruntled with America in general since every single one of the signers of the Declaration of Independence was a white male.

You're so right!

You're so right!

juan maldonado

3rd world immigration will Exterminate Whites

Genocide is done by many ways. Immigration is one way.

Look how Chinese are flooding Tibet. They are not killing thousands of Tibetans. Like Stalin killed millions of Russians.

Chinese build roads, buildings, electricity, sewage.

Materially life is better in Tibet. Even monks have smartphones now. More incomes, better houses.

But genocide is going on. Some of my friends are Tibetans.

They said immigration will eliminate Whites in Europe and America.

They say Whites are committing suicide.

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That's true.

I don't know if you've read Pat Buchanan's "Suicide of a Superpower" but he documents the suicide of European peoples excellently. I'm all for people using birth control if that's what they want to do, but birth control is absolutely killing Europeans. European families are down on average to less than two children. That's simply unsustainable, especially considering Middle Eastern immigrants are having 6-10.