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Neuro-Linguistic Programming: How To Have Instant Rapport

At some point you're going to have to go out there and start talking to people. Get in the groove - match their rapport!




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I was told

...never to argue with an idiot lol

Putting words in in the mouths' of others is one of rudest things someone can do imo.

I have witnessed it repeatedly at the University level.


a man convinced against his will is of the same opinion


Don't feed the pandas. Ever.

see also this with Sean Hannity

one of their favorite magic phrases is

(insert false assumption) "...the reality of the situation..." (insert desired narrative)

"If this mischievous financial policy [greenbacks], which has its origin in North America, should become endurated down to a fixture, then that government will furnish its own money without cost. It will pay off its debts and be without debts. It will hav

Better... recognize when it is being used against you!

In pretty much every televised speech since and including Bill Clinton, NLP is being used against the observer. And they do an amazing job at it. The serious NLP professionals are speech writing and coaching the president.

If you ever actually read the transcript of the speeches you'd think to yourself... what? is that even the english language? it's totally bizarre. they say nothing, but even for the trained listener, the human brain begins to resonate. If you know what to listen for you'll catch it.

For example (here's a crude simple one, but you'll probably recognize it.

"We... here in America... right now... "

Ding ding ding.. NLP in action. I wont get into the explanation of it. You can look that up yourself.

It's a 123 suckerpunch...

two truths then a lie. It's usually two undeniable truths like as you stated, then the message.

Don't feed the pandas. Ever.

Updated with better video.

Downvoter be darned.

Don't feed the pandas. Ever.