Choice vs Pro-life

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I hate to bring this up. Seems negative, but I'm in a fix and I can only imagine others are too.

My ex-wife and I are life-long Libertarians (yes, as in party).

Well, I had her all pumped about the Dr., even to the point of registering R (now that's a sacrifice).

Everything's great, and then she emails me "He's PRO-LIFE?!?!?!"

UhOh, not good.

I tried reason. Well, he says it's a state issue, he's not running for dictator, it's only one of many issues etc etc.

Well she's cut off communications and my tummy hurts from anxiety.

It wouldn't be such a big deal, but I know lots of other women who have the same reaction.

Strategy??

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Terminology

The interesting thing about this thread for me is that everyone here seems to have bought into the hypocritical weasel-wording practiced by both "sides" of this Great Debate. "Pro-life"; "pro-choice": both are crap. The argument isn't over "life", or "choice", it's about abortion. Some consider abortion a useful solution to the problem of undesired pregnancy; others do not.

Why not call it what it is? On this issue, you're either pro-abortion or anti-abortion. For my part, I simply cannot take seriously anyone who isn't willing at least to be honest about what they're talking about.

Dr. Paul is at least consistent on the issue, which is what sets him apart from pretty much all other politicians: he is in general anti-war, anti-death penalty, and anti-abortion. In other words, he doesn't believe that casual killing is a solution to any problem. He is truly "pro-life". Nor is he anti-choice; he merely believes that choice, i.e. freedom, must be based on responsibility.

By contrast, "pro-life" people mostly seem to take positive pleasure in killing furriners and "bad people", while most "pro-choice" people are enthusiastic proponents of totalitarian government control of every area of our lives -- including forcing those who are horrified by abortion to fund it.

Interestingly, I don't believe I've come across an abortion proponent who him/herself has ever been aborted. Not a very balanced sample.

On the other hand, I think abortion survivor Gianna Jessen deserves to be heard.

This whole abortion rights

This whole abortion rights thing is very regional. I live in the south and so when I'm out convincing people to vote for Paul the FIRST question is "Is he pro-life?" and when I say yes it's an instant vote. You gotta remember that the largest voting block is evangelicals which are almost all pro-life. This represents the largest majority group in America. If he was pro-choice he wouldn't have any hope of winning. Our only hope now is that the evangelical vote won't solely go to Huckabee but will spread, like it has been, to Paul. Surprisingly to me a lot of Christian voters don't want us to continue the war but aren't vocal about it. Again, politically as so many have stated, if there's 1 issue you disagree with him on this issue will ensure him the most votes. Congress is too deadlocked on abortion to have anything pass anyway.

SF womans response

This came up for a supporter for Ron Paul who was a strong far left activist type in SF.

She said that although ron was pro life. He supports the states and my empowered vote to make this decision not uncontrollable washington or the courts.

More importantly she stated that its come down to loosing choice on everything else and my freedoms.

That doesnt leave me any choice but to go with Ron Paul.

Abortion

To the single issue pro-choice voter, say this:

When power of the state takes away your right to speak freely, and the right to privacy in your own home, and has erased the US borders with Canada and Mexico for the NA Union, you can take solace in the fact that you still have the right to an abortion.

And when a future president is not satisfied with the power they have, and they create the Dept. of New Citizen Management, and decides it's in the federal governments interest, you can have a FORCED abortion, in the name of population control.

Roe-vs-Wade was a disaster

Ron Paul is 100% against abortion. I am willing to accept abortion in the early stages of pregnancy, before the fetus has an operational brain.

What we can both agree on is that there is nothing in the Constitution that gives the federal government a right to regulate abortion at all. When 7 out of 9 Supreme Court judges said there was, they lied. This is a matter for the states. If conservative states are allowed to have sharp restrictions on abortion and liberal states less restrictive abortion laws, a much larger fraction of the population will be satisfied with the result than are now under our unconstitutional one-size-fits-all policy. In private conversations with pro-abortion liberals I've found that they agree with me that the Constitution says nothing about abortion, but they like Roe-vs-Wade because it gave them the result they want. I find such disregard for the rule of law contemptible. Such people have no right to complain if some conservative judge decides that the first, fourth, and fifth amendments have been superseded by various emanations and penumbras of other parts of the Constitution.

One consequence of Roe-vs-Wade is that it has poisoned the whole process of nominating Supreme Court judges. The only thing conservatives care about is whether he's pro-life, and the only thing the liberals care about is whether he's pro-abortion. It's as if nothing else matters.

Bush was Pro-Life

You can argue that Bush was Pro-Life and he only managed to get us into an unwinnable occupation in Iraq that is costing the lives of thousands of our soldiers, thousands of Iraqi civilians and billions of dollars. Under his presidency, she still has the right to an abortion.
I think Ron Paul can do a little bit better than Bush.

You know, put it in perspective.

I am wholly apathetic

regarding the moral issue. However, the consitutional issue of Roe v. Wade is something that I take serious issue with. RvW needs to be overturned, as it is an affront to the rights of the states, and to the Constitution itself.

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just curious...

Personally I'm pro-life, but most of my girl friends are pro-choice and they always come at me with this scenario:
"what if a woman was raped? should she be forced to have the baby of the beast who did that to her?"
That always stumps me... I like to think that God doesn't give us anything we can't handle but to be honest I don't know how those women must feel and I hope I'll never have to.

how do the rest of you pro-lifers approach this hypothetical situation?

Here's a look at the issue

Here's a look at the issue from the libertarian point of view:

http://www.l4l.org/library/aborrape.html // "Abortion in the Case of Pregnancy Due to Rape"

Or, more generally:
http://www.l4l.org/library/wrngnotr.html // "A Wrong, Not a Right: An Atheist Libertarian Looks at Abortion", esp. "Is abortion ever permissible?"
http://www.l4l.org/library/ac&lp.html // "Abortion, Choice, and Libertarian Principles", esp. "The hard cases"

It is obvious isn't it?

Many people ARE "one issue" Voters. Gee, many talk about tollerance... well?
Roe v Wade should have never been a Federal mandate. It is terrible abuse of our system.
If this issue had to be brought forward, it should have proceeded State by State...not one fell swoop...regardless of whether you are Pro this or Pro that.
The OxyMoron is when Libertarians claim they don't want the Fed in their business...except for abortion rights? Then it's alright? Give me a break.

Back around 1973 our technology was ancient as it was today...if you don't believe the Bible and are into science...hypothesis' have changed on many issues due to advanced technology. Now we have interesting cinematography of the baby in the womb alive and well.
So...when does life begin?
Why is it okay to take a life of the unborn surgically?
And murder when someone purposely punches the pregnant woman in the stomach and the unborn child dies?
Why is it okay to terminate the life of a child 1 minute before birth...ie: partial birth infanticide--(suck the baby's brain out).
But it's considered murder 1 minute after the child has been born and suffocated and thrown in the trash bin?
Why is it that certain times in Florida...One can be fined and do time in prison if he/she interferes with turtle eggs and accidentally destroy them?
Have we reached the end when we cherish turtles more than humans?

We have created many gray areas and this subject has taken many blurred paths.
When are we going to call a spade a spade and acknowledge when human life really begins?
Can anyone say Conception?
My 2 cents.

Conception?

"In nature, 50% of all fertilized eggs are lost before a woman's missed menses."
www.ucsfivf.org

Also, are older women killers if they attempt to become pregnant, since they have a higher chance of losing their fertilized eggs?
What happens if the egg grows into triplets? Are they all the same person?

As you said, the subject has taken many blurred paths. I agree with all your other points completely, it's ludicrous that we have laws against killing the unborn of certain species....but not humans.

I'm pro-choice but I don't care

I think a woman should have the right to chose what happens with her body.

Obviously, her right to have an abortion conflicts with the fetus's right to have a life.

This is a big issue.

Here's an even bigger issue: our US Constitution is being systematically dismantled to the point that it's no longer clear if the Bill of Rights have any meaning. Checks and balances from 3 separate branches of government? Might be a thing of the past.

Let's restore the constitution first so that we can later have a good old fashioned American debate about abortion.

Yuck

What kind of woman is against liberty for fetuses? I say give them liberty by letting them be born.

You had your chance at 'choice' when you failed to use a condom...and only communists and nazis are for weeding out the human population to include only the desirables.

The Best Pro-Life Argument in the Debate

If you want to turn your girl pro-life, have her read this:

http://reformthelp.org/issues/abortion/thoughts.php

No moral high horse. No mention of religion (it's written by an atheist). Just simple property rights and responsibility acceptance.

Congratulations in advance for converting her if you choose this as your weapon.

On The Head!

You couldn't have picked a more persuasive advocate.

Well done.

Thank You.

We're adding to the list here.

Soon we'll be armed to the teeth!!!

Bring on NOW!!!

Another point of view...

"If your so pro-life and so pro-child, then adopt one that’s already here who is very unwanted and is very alone and needs someone to take care of it to get it out of the horrible situation its in…. and people say “why don’t you do that” and I say “because I hate f-ing kids and couldn’t care less, couldn’t give a F-ck.” It’s your choice, case closed, bottom line, the end, and by the way, that 3 month old kid in your belly is not a f-ing human being, its just a bunch of congregated cells… you're not a human, until you're in my phonebook."

-Bill Hicks

I think Rudy has a website of his own

You should go there.

Ha! Thanks.

This isn't my personal opinion. But I think it's funny. And Bill Hicks is awesome.

I hate this issue

No offense to the unborn, but the real problems we have in this country are much larger than the abortion issue. This one issue produces more 1 issue voters than any other. That is how we have ended up with a corrupt 2 party system. I am pro choice so I will vote Dem. I am pro life so I will vote Repub. Never mind that 90% of them are lying corrupt politicians.

I hate this issue too

But I see it at the core of our problems. It's like the chicken or the egg. Have we become so wicked that we even have to debate the issue of individual responsibility and respect for life..

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see my comments below

Update

So I send a heart-sick email to my ex, telling her about my anguish and all your excellent advice, and I get this:

whatareyoucrazy!!!!!!!!

of course it's not a turn-off,
what you said makes perfect sense.
i just didn't have any time to respond.

i'm still changing my registration

-me

So: happy day!

But just look at all the ammo we've gathered for others!!

You're ALL GREAT!! I thank you!!

What a coincidence that ol' RP can draw such an outstanding group of people around him

11/5!!!

Great job

Island flyer and all,
It still amazes me that even people who are at opposite ends of inflamatory issues can still come together to support this great man. We may actually restore this nation. What just happened here was pretty amazing and a microcosm of what we could be like as Americans again.

amen

to that!

We're not going to solve this issue here

But let facts be facts. At the absolute core of RP's philosophy is the rejection of force, individual responsibility and respect for life. If you support RP and reject this you are inconsistant in your own values.

Integrity

You've already mentioned the fact that he believes it's a states rights issue. But the most important thing has to be a person's charachter. Ron Paul is someone you can actually trust. He's not running to be king. Unfortunately the others are, they are products of the system...They pretend because they don't think the average citizen can handle the Truth.

The truth is pretty ugly in the system of government we have right now. And there is only one candidate that can change it.

Mike
Ron Paul is my HERO!!!

Mike
"Fire Team for Freedom"
visit www.mikeandjake.com

I'm pro-choice but I don't care

I think a woman should have the right to chose what happens with her body.

Obviously, her right to have an abortion conflicts with the fetus's right to have a life.

This is a big issue.

Here's an even bigger issue: our US Constitution is being systematically dismantled to the point that it's no longer clear if the Bill of Rights have any meaning. Checks and balances from 3 separate branches of government? Might be a thing of the past.

Let's restore the constitution first so that we can later have a good old fashioned American debate about abortion.

How can you?

How can anyone be anti-war, anti-killing, anti-death penalty, but pro-'CHOICE'?

It ain't your 'choice' to take a life...unless you are being attacked with a similar goal in mind. Then it's called self-defense.

There is no excuse for killing the defensless.

Just think, this baby born just a year ago to an unwed relative, could have been an abortion HAD WE ENCOURAGED IT. Boy are we glad we didn't!

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One more liberty lover to vote for freedom.

Winner!!

First in a class field!

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