Comment: Point is..

We actually live in a feudal system... so if you seriously I know you guys and gals are going to think I'm smoking something (I am - lawfully btw) but you gotta almost get out the D&D and the roll playing dice to understand this stuff.

So think like you lived back in medieval times and start reading some of that - ex compliment to the strawman/freeman-on-the-land process IMO.

So first step is BELIEVING you are King or Queen. You have to start there and then start thinking like "this doesn't makes sense... I'm the King" - next step is... okay I must have stepped in something (consented to something)... figure out what that is and you won't make that mistake again.

Get to level 14 with a battle axe and 13 spells with 142 hit points...