and frankly I really don't blame you. A lot of people believe that some people are just born homosexuals and no matter what upbringing they have or who raises them, what experiences they have, etc. they are predestined to be homosexual the same way black people are born black, white people are born white, etc. etc. etc. There's just one problem with that logic though. I've never heard of a black person that stopped being black or a white person that stopped being white. I have heard of MANY homosexual people that either entered the homosexual lifstyle after being married and having children or stopped being homosexual, just as drug addicts can stop being addicted to drugs.