Yes! You are exactly right. I experienced the same with women. I was kind of seeing this girl in school who I really liked and we hung out together. After I graduated, I went off where I got a pretty good job, and while I was away, she would always be emailing me and IM to go hang out with her. But then stuff started not working out with my job, because it got so expensive living on my own in another state, so I had to quit and go back home, which left me without a job for over 6 months. Since when she found out about it, she quit talking to me and cut off all contact with me. It left me depressed for over a year, because I was willing to marry this girl.
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