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After 20 months ...

we gave up trying and we were going to adopt.

But we still spent a few minutes everynight taking her temperature.

I became extremely familiar with my wife.

I could predict moods. We dialogued every night.

And we still tried to get pregnant, but we were not uptight about it. We came to terms with the fact that there was more than one way to have kids.

Four months later, we conceived and we had another 2 years later, and another 2 years after that.