Comment: I am quite sure

that you have very little idea what you're talking about. The so-called graviton is completely theoretical, massless and physically undetectable. In essence, we don't even know if it's mediated by a particle/wave at all, or something completely new.

You seem to assume we understand gravity completely, "provided you know the correct waveform equations". The truth is, there are so many anomalies concerning the effect of gravity, reality must be much more complex than any simplistic model we are temporarily using.

In other words, we can see it working, and generally predict its effects, but we have no idea how or why it works.