Are we all supposed to be numb with shock or bleeding with empathy? There are a lot of people here who have seen a great deal of evidence that things are often not as they seem. The main questions here IMO are who stands to benefit by this action (the state obviously) and what could cause someone to do what was done. Drugs and mental instability have to be considered but so do external factors, individuals who might have been able to exercise control over Holmes for the purpose of having him perform these very acts.
I don't see how raising these questions dishonors the grieving families any more than pursuing the mental health angle. There are plenty of people pursuing the latter. Let others pursue the conspiracy angles.
New Hampshire and Ecuador.