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WOW! Amazing that this is what we have to end up doing to

protect ourselves. It is like the gal I knew that had a thriving business and had to shut it down, lost her home, and was on welfare once her husband got cancer. They were married for more than 23 years and the entire thing caused so much stress they ended in divorce. It would have been better to divorce in the first place and put the home and business in her name.

Jim is getting better, BUT.... his memory is at about 3 minutes. His shoulder pain is pretty extreme at times, but we can work on pain management and it helps quite a bit.

I recently recived his first hospital bill.... OMG.... I will be needing to chat with everyone on steps to take next.