You should figure out your answer and give it to her, if that's what you wish, but to think you can or should carry a "message from the RP community" back to her baffles me. There are almost as many answers as there are individuals in the community, and for many of us, the paraphrased answer is "absolutely nothing"; for many others, there may actually be something that can be done to win over their support.
Your time would probably be better spent thinking about your own wishes and positions than trying to get in the heads of millions of disparate people and trying to speak for them. One of those tasks you can succeed in; the other you cannot.
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