Comment: always remember freedom.

It is your freedom to eat right and do the things that will improve your life/health. It is her freedom to choose not too, and it is when the children are under one another control is when the decisions for the child should be made. If she is winning every time for the children to eat shit food... then maybe you are not presenting the idea fair enough/with a good solution right in hand. Or maybe you need to tell the lady that clearly you are not raising your children, she is.. and maybe you wont live with that.

as for you being crazy.... we all are a little crazy especially in a time of heightened awareness of the collapse coming. You must take over the finances and get into physical things and wipe away any debt the government can use over you. It time like these we must stop being a nagging old father and be a man