Comment: John C,Seek some counseling

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John C,Seek some counseling

John C,

Seek some counseling for your marriage. Your union means that the GOALS of you and your wife must be the same for your marriage. No, you don't have to agree on everything, but your GOALS must be the same. Write down the goals of your marriage, e.g. raising the kids, etc and seek agreement with your wife on those goals. Focus on those COMMON goals and put other issues secondary to those COMMON goals. The secondary issues are still important, but secondary to your common goals of marriage. Best wishes as marriage is like walking a tight-rope sometimes...