We share the children but she has chosen junk food over them. Just because they live with her half time does not mean she would hand over her toast for them.
Interestingly I used to unload wheat. No kidding and for 4 years. I know all about wheat and chaff. Did you know that we take a marginally nutritious product (wheat) and mill out the shell and the germ and then have to add B-1, B-2, B-3 & folic acid back in by government order?
Also interesting is that food does affect our smarts as well as our eyesight, hearing and everything else. Hormones, sleep, strength, endurance to name just 4.
We might never know the way this situation changes our children. Children love their moms and dads.