Basically what you are saying is, given this choice:
A. Dead babies, dead soldiers, dead civilians
B. Dead babies, live soldiers, live civilians
You prefer option A.
That makes no logical sense. "Compromise" is not a 4 letter word. You don't have to change your values, but compromise in policy is the ONLY way we ever make progress. Refusing to compromise on any policy whatsoever is LITERALLY resigning 100% and giving your say up completely.
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