You must understand that "being in" is a matter of individual choice, not something you can promote. During the campaign, some people have "been in" and have had to walk away to preserve their own sense of reason. and dignity.
You'r a stayer, you have a niche with other RP supporters there, that's fine, and power to you, give 'em hell.
But you must understand, and respect, the views of others that don't see your path as the right path. or the only path.
The logic in joining the status quo and electing mitt romney, so you can keep him to the constitution, to others may seem ludicrous, and repugnant, and some may see it simply as promoting votes for the Republican party.
"Hell is empty, and all the devils are here" (Shakespeare)
RP 2012~ Intellectual Revolution.