Comment: If you give up on them

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If you give up on them

you gain nothing, but you also lose nothing. These are the type of people that "go with the flow". It's just how they are - focus your energy somewhere else, like people who are into politics , but may have a different viewpoint, and the more of "flow" people you convert , the more "go" people will join.