Comment: I have a couple relatives just like you.

Born again Christians that think they're oppressed in some way, very easily offended by everything. They can't be happy being Christians, but need everyone else to adhere to they're beliefs.
They NEED government to recognize their belief system in order to feel that they are living in line with God.

The thing that sticks out to me the most, anyone who believes in Jesus, no matter what laws or commandments were broken, will meet God when they die.
Everyone else, no matter what good they do, gets to shovel coal for eternity.

Now you have a reason to feel alienated, but not by the OP.