Comment: True, BUT

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True, BUT

if you have a grudge against someone for things they did to you in the past and you hold onto it for years and not let go of it then it only hurts YOU. I know, I have done just that. I kept hating some people for things they did YEARS ago and I finally decided to drop that baggage and just forgive the jerks. In other words, I put that past behind me. Now is a good time of year to think about doing that. If someone is CONSTANTLY giving you hell then that is a different story. It's like trying to ignore a tooth that needs pulling. Sometimes you just HAVE to get that darned tooth pulled though you hate doing it!