My comments below are on point (re INTJ's).
You're probably an NT, and as such not only in the minority, but especially were feeling it, growing up, because most elementary school teachers are ST's and SF's who tell children "the way things are," in ways that are utterly unconvincing for NT's.
Look for someone with similar views who doesn't expect you to conform, at least in private! You know, already, how awful that can feel.
What do you think? http://consequeries.com/
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