That is a very moving post.
"The level of complexity involved in this process can appear to be an insurmountable obstacle - currently."
Just take the first step - make your demand. Instead of endorsing checks write "I demand lawful money" if you cannot remember anything more.
You sign your demand instead of endorsement. Many times there is no signature required; your demand is often accepted as your signature!
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