a 12 gauge shotgun in your vehicle. I would let them know if I survived, my first stop would be whoever sent them; and, if I survived that, their homes and their families. Of course, they would not be there to grieve.
Everyone cares about somebody and surrendering your weapons will not save your family. While they are only movies, I suggest you see, "Red" with Bruce Willis and "Sophie's Choice" with Meryl Streep.