"It's not a game" is right -- he is embarking on a commitment to bring another (or more than one) soul into this world. It is an ambitious undertaking, and "dating" might not seem like the first step but, it is. :)
As I mentioned in my other post to this thread, I took it slow -- to your "try not to let lust cloud your thinking". Love blossomed. It is wonderful.
I love you. I'm sorry. Please forgive me. Thank you.
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