I'm sorry that you had to be on the receiving end of such a post. I've had that building in me for a long time, and I was kind of afraid it was going to generate hostility from you.
I did read in another comment from you that you wanted at least solutions. Hopefully you at least read my last paragraph, where my rhetorical questions brought up where the solutions need to be.
I do appreciate your ability to take the heat for asking a legitimate question from your mind.
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