I've been debating anarchists for forever as a friendly sport so I'm used to it and I am good friends with many of them. :)
Part of it is that many people just don't like or just don't have the personality for super-intense debate and they often end up taking it personally. No matter what the topic is or who they are debating.
~wobbles but doesn't fall down~
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