Comment: Exactly, fishy!

You did it again. Got right to the heart of the matter.

I never did understand why it is so tabu for adult children (married or single) to live with their parents in America. Not saying they absolutely should but, what's wrong with that? With the rising costs of food, utilities, taxes, etc., it just makes more sense to stay together, with each contributing something (money, food, caring for grandparents, etc.) to keep the family functioning well. Love makes that easier to do.

The family unit is a powerful bond of love and trust and is the best defense against "invaders" of all types. (You can fill in your own definition of "invaders" as you choose.) The breakdown of the family structure is important to "invaders" who want to control you,your kids' minds and overall health. Not a good thing, that kind of outside control.