Comment: BOOSTING time - Part III

BOOSTING time - Part III

Parts I and II (below) were about trying to boost up your mood, staying in the generalities of why you are - at least - in the right "camp". Liberty.

I came back for Part III, which will be the last. I have re-read your post again, including trying to read between the lines, thanks to other comments you provided below.

So, here's part three - not gonna be long, that's the best advice I can think of - you'll judge for yourself - I'm nothing of authority for you - no one is, you'll have to remember that, anyway, you own yourself. Always. That includes risk taking and choices.

You live at your parents. You have a job. I also know you're saving a bit and trying to get rid of some loan debts. It's all very good already. That's the basics.

It's just you're still not 100% self-reliant (with own roof), you're single, and don't feel quite like in the mood of moving any time soon.

Am I right?

I'm telling you: that's still fine.

If you weren't kind of low, I would *maybe* recommend trying to meet someone caring as well (for herself, you, values).

But I don't: it's extremely rare it ever works out that way. You could try, but I don't recommend.

You must FEEL strong inside, mentally, emotionally, before getting to meet a woman. At least if you care at minima about a relationship worth of the name.

I am NOT saying it's wrong and forbidden for men to feel weak or low or with too many questions - it happens - just can't be too often. I am just saying: that's the worst possible moment. A great woman (whomever YOUR criteria are) DESERVES a great man - who also happens to feel great.

So, what?

Here is my advice my friend:

LEARN. SKILLS. AS MANY AND/OR AS MUCH OF IT as you can, while you're at your parents. Can be manual, or not at all.

BUT LEARN BY YOURSELF until your brain, time, schedule can't take it anymore.

For what's coming to us, the 3rd thing that'll be most precious RIGHT AFTER the basic prepper stuff (items) and gold/silver is ...

... skills.

In my example, I'm in software engineering, never been into hardware at all to make a living, but my wife who had mechanics all around her all her life (the bro, the father) is teaching me mechanics, and a bit electronics, too.

So, yes:

LEARN. LEARN. LEARN.

DO WHATEVER IT TAKES TO LEARN - preferably about things you feel will be in demand when SHTF.

Plus, that'll keep you super busy, at some point you'll not only feel smarter but you'll actually know much more than folks around you, and, who knows ... you may even meet someone during your errands to fish for information.

Your mood/feel good average will rise, too - that is automatic.

Use the WWW before THAT, too, starts vanishing AND/OR find face to face mentors, skilled persons.

'HTH,

Peace.