Comment: Tsk tsk.

You're the one calling others control freaks, so I'd check your premises regarding who is "self-righteous" here. The fact that your father-in-law was an abusive Fundy nutcase with a King James Bible is not material to this discussion, so I'll ask you to quit whining about it.

Furthermore, comparing me to a Baptist is about as big of an insult as you can throw at someone of my persuasion, even more so than the use of 3rd wave feminist bullocks in order to try to guilt-trip people into thinking like you. Please avoid the temptation of talking first and thinking later, it will serve you much better in your next response, which I will most likely ignore anyway.