LOL. Just focus on your woman or "girl". :)
Sounds like you all are grown adults, so...
... to each his/her own (intellectual luck/wisdom), at this point in life!
Best wishes (in "sharing your luck" with you know who...) ;)
My name is pronounced like "see real". I code stuff for a living and for pleasure. I care quite a bit about language.
I think America should consider doing the same, and... ASAP!