Stop being idiots. All meaning of all words is subjective. Got that? There are no laws of chemistry or physics or mathematics that would objectively state what anarchy is suppose to mean. None.
This word like every other word in our language means what people think it means.
So instead of wasting your and everyone else' precious time how about you stop behaving like a 5 year old and figure out instead how to best communicate the right IDEAS as opposed to a meaning of a word?
p.s.: And this is coming from a staunch anarcho capitalist.