O the conceit of the pretence of knowledge, that there can be wise philosopher kings (har har har). Also that I believe that there are no bad actors in society(har har har).
You can live in your world of war of all against the all, very dark and depressing.
I will live in the real world, where the psychopaths and socio-paths are in the government and the majority of the people just want to be left alone to perform productive work with mutually beneficial voluntary exchanges of goods and services. Where there is everyday anarchy between people. You don't need a ruler to buy a cup of coffee, that is handled in a purely voluntary or anarchic manner.
The only utopian here is one who has swallowed the state propaganda from the government youth indoctrination camps.