Your 11 year old has Autism? Is that correct? Contact the many National Autism groups.. association, center, resources... It's just really important that you send out copies.. maybe your 11 year old can write a cover letter about what he sees happening?
(((((((You and your family are absolutly in my prayers)))))) if you belong to a Church you might ask for some help, mailing letters, stamps, paper, copying costs.. and it you can.. maybe give a fundraiser for you?
Red cross nearby? REACH OUT FOR LOCAL HELP expose the darkness!
Should include a few attorney's too