Comment: It isn't your fault.

Their is a difference between being responsible for your choices, and being at fault.

How is my way worse than the states? You walk into the wrong apartment complex and get shot by someone at random without leaving evidence (which is REALLY what your question boils down to). What does the state do? Other than not solve the murder?

In anarchism, at least their is a greater degree of justice potential. Because there is financial and emotional need to find justice by friends, family, security firm.

But no, I can't promise you every murder will be solved and the world be one big happy place. That is utopian and the realm of government. It's not the real world.