Comment: I'll defer to your superior knowledge...

..about what's in vinceableworld's heart (though he might disagree). I found his post to be neither cynical nor bitter, and in fact, a little enlightening. Some are so quick to anger, and to insist that NOT participating in a (fun for some) ritual is somehow an offense against it. Sugar and Bud and I are lucky to have found each other; we please each other because it pleases us to do so, not because of numbers on a calendar. Perhaps THAT makes us cynical, bitter, and pathetic as well.

Save your "pity", unless you get a personal rush from it. The rest of us find it arrogant and insulting.

Scratching my head and pondering the words...