Comment: The situation is incredibly complicated.

I may have a "Stockholm syndrome" situation on my hands. I will never give up on HER, but I have to be realistic. I was full time nanny-granny for 2 years, then a situation I just can't go into developed and I did not see that grandson, or the newborn one, for almost 2 years now. We have only spoken on the phone 3 or 4 times over that period, she has cut me, my husband and my son out of her life.
But thank you for the kind words, I pray for her all the time, all the time.