You contradict yourself by saying, "The only moral thing to do in my opinion is to teach your children to think for themselves, be curious, and follow the golden rule." How do you plan on imparting these moral values to your children without "teaching and/or conditioning" them to believe it is the proper way to act. I might disagree with what another parent teaches their child or how they teach their child but is not my job to tell them they can't. It is okay to dialogue with people about what is wrong and why as you are doing here. I am just trying to point out the contradiction that it is possible to raise your children in a moral vacuum. Even atheist who don't believe in a god try to impart morals to their children.
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