I have no desire to force you to do or believe anything, nor can I.
John 6:64 But there ares ome of you that believe not. For Jesus knew from the beginning who they were that believed not, and who should betray him. 65 And he said, Therefore said I unto you, that no man can come unto me, except it were given unto him of my Father.
Nor can you, unless it is given to you!
Eph.2:8 For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God:
IMO in this day and age we have become pretty high and mighty thinking we can decide for ourselves, when really we are at the mercy of God. I think it is a great deception!