1. I am not an anarcho-capitalist, so do not wish to educate anyone about that.
2. Believe me, I tried the softly-softly approach for a long time. People ignore it for the most part, and it's dishonest. I'm telling people what the stakes are, and that freaks them out a bit, but I couldn't look myself in the eye in the mirror if I wasn't honest. I believe in direct and honest communication, and in this context, it calls for a confrontation.
So I appreciate that the delivery isn't as slick as some people would want, but they are gonna have to leave their comfort zone at some point. Why not do it at a time of their own choosing?
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