That is exactly what people do. Justify sin. There are some who teach lawfulness yet fail and repent from time to time. That what grace is all about. Then there are many who teach that we cannot help but sin so go ahead and sin because our debt has been paid, they say "The LAW was nailed to the cross so we can do as we wish as long as we SAY we believe in Him." The latter are headed for destruction.
You think that charity is saying things to make people feel good regardless. I say charity is speaking the truth despite what people will think of me or the truth that is told.
Keep digging. :-)
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