and based on your replies you may have...issues. Not everything is personal, when you automatically assume everything is personal that is a very bad sign. It makes people think maybe you are just spoiling for a fight, rather than seeking a discussion of issues. In my experiance people who are always spoiling for a fight usually get one fairly soon, and it usually doesn't take too long to pick a fight with the wrong person either.
Jack of all Trades
Precinct Commiteeman Precinct 5 Rock Island Co Illinois