...rationalize, justify, make excuses...blah, blah.....
I state a blunt, simple, bottom-line philosophical position/analogy and gee-whiz, what happens....YOU appear and throw out a personal sob-story, just as all collectivist's/statist's do to justify taking from some to give to others.
Go piss up a rope. Feed your own family, get with your church, get with a charity, get a job, barter a service, but keep your hands out of other peoples pockets via force of government.
When all is said and done, taking what the government gives in these instances is exactly akin to that...despite how wildly unpopular it seem to be with those of you who would or have done it.
It is what it is.