You don't have to LIKE it, you have to DO it.
Girls are social. Some less, some more. You have to meet someone, which means you need to BE social, whether you like it or not, to some degree.
Did you see what I said about self-control? Sometimes you have to do things you don't normally like to achieve the goal you want to achieve.
Start in activities that YOU enjoy and you'll automatically meet people with shared interests.