I may be wrong, but I don't believe you will find a 9x19 revolver because the case isn't rimmed.
However, .38 special and .357 mag are revolver cartridges. There are others, but a .38 special has reasonable recoil and good knock down power. Plus there are very common. (Note: I mention both because they fire the same same bullet diameter, but have different case lengths -- .38 fires in .357 but not vice-versa)
S&W (and many others) make revolvers chambered in these rounds. I have heard good things about the S&W J & K frames for carrying.
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