Comment: Rosaria Butterfield, the author of a book I just read,

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Rosaria Butterfield, the author of a book I just read,

was a lesbian for 10 years. She said that for her it absolutely was a choice. She chose to live that life, and then she chose to stop it.

All of us are oriented to lie, cheat, steal, some more so than others. Whether we give in to those temptations or not is a choice.