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If I knew my children were in good hands, ie with grandparents, I would be fine with being patient as I rebuilt my credibility, owned up to my mistakes, and worked towards eventually being able to spend a lot of time with my children again. I mean cutting one's losses is better than running off to Cuba and spending years in prison (possibly) while the children end up with the grandparents again.