What touched me about your post, was the willingness to look at the perpetrators as individuals. Early on, before we knew who did it, the media outlets were profiling according to their ideological bent. You avoid this in you piece. As a Catholic-Christian every person is a non-repeatable singularity and created to be infinitely loved. Do I live up to this all the time? Nope... however I can always reorient myself to point of life as I believe it to be. I can certainly let the small stuff go - ie internet squabbles. The big stuff will take a long time for all of us to work out.