Teaching your children to take personal responsibility for their actions. Hmm...that's bad parenting to some here?
"Bad behavior always has a bad consequence ... and always followed by an increase of love afterwards."
"It's also not my choice whether they get spanked or not. It's their choice."
Someone please enlighten me as to why parents like this should be disparaged?
I have four kids, aged 9 through 14, and I know it is not easy - kudos to you!!