As I see it, and that's my problem with gender wars, yet another form of collectivism, be it male chauvinism or feminism, is:
What's in the hearts of women? Men just don't know.
What's in the hearts of men? Women just don't know. EITHER.
However, here's the ONLY thing worth seeking, figuring out, IMO:
what's in the heart of YOUR partner or spouse?
That ALONE isn't always easy to find out.
And guess what. YOU LIVE with HER or with HIM.
We're individuals. Groups are nothing but an abstraction coined by our intellect and/or ego.
Peace and Love. :)
My name is pronounced like "see real". I code stuff for a living and for pleasure. I care quite a bit about language.
I think America should consider doing the same, and... ASAP!