called Aid and Attendance. Maybe you can find some help. Better for all involved to get some respite help than to snap. (((hug)))
Another thing that might help is headphones or a personal speaker for the tv, on a table by his chair. My mom is hard of hearing and step dad is not, that's how they deal.
Don't forget to take care of you. xoxo
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