I had a client's husband who was harsh and unreasonable and downright nasty. They had been through 15 caregivers before me. I made it longer than the rest and he requested me. He kept up the unreasonable disrespectful treatment of me so one day I sat him down ,looked him in the eye and said "I am giving loving care to your wife.if I ever stop wanting to come here it won't be because of her.." I held his gaze and he gulped. We became somewhat friends from then on. You father will have "party manners" with a good caregiver and will want mutual respect.
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